★ The Ordained Minister’s Best Friend · Since 2007

Learn to Officiate Weddings Like a Pro

A downloadable, step-by-step system for online ordained ministers who want to lead meaningful, legally sound ceremonies for friends, family, or paying couples.

Used for over 1,000 ceremonies Over 70 ceremony selections Thousands of possible ceremony combinations Nonreligious & inclusive
Wedding officiant leading a modern ceremony
2007
Officiating since
0+
Selections to choose from
0%
Copy, paste & customize
$0
One-time download
Minister laughing with a happy couple during a ceremony How to get ordained to perform weddings
Wedding officiant and couple during a ceremony
What you get inside

Everything a first-time officiant needs

This system gives you the words, the order, and the confidence to lead a ceremony that gets high-fives afterward.

Unique & Fun Vibe

Modern, nonreligious scripts with over 70 ceremony selections that feel personal, not generic.

Modern Verbiage

Natural, contemporary language that sounds like real people today, not stiff, old-fashioned phrases.

Fully Customizable

Copy, paste, and tailor every section to each couple’s story for a truly memorable ceremony.

Simple Process

Email the material to your couple, collect their choices, and build a ceremony outline fast.

Non-Faith & Inclusive

Unity ceremony ideas and special moments that make any couple’s wedding feel uniquely theirs.

Start-to-Finish Guide

From the first word to the final pronouncement, you’re never guessing what comes next.

Two ways to get started

Get prepared.
Nail the ceremony.

Start with the scripts, or get the bundle with officiant training and save $19.

Ceremony Materials
Everything you need to build a fun, modern ceremony, instantly downloadable.
$99
One time · Instant download
  • Instructions for officiant & couple
  • Complete ceremony outline & materials
  • Over 70 selections to choose from
  • Thousands of possible ceremony combinations
  • Unique, fun & modern wording
Get the Ceremony Package
Most Popular
Materials + Training
Everything in Ceremony Materials, plus audio and video training on timing, pauses, and delivery.
$129$148
One time · 1 year of access
  • Everything in Ceremony Materials
  • Audio and video of all ceremony material
  • Comprehensive professional instruction
  • Cheat sheets for your actual ceremony
  • Save $19 vs buying separately
Get the Bundle

Just want the scripts to start? Grab Ceremony Materials →

The process

From “I have no idea” to “everyone loved it”

01

Log into the customer portal

Get the full collection of scripts, readings, vows, and unity ideas instantly.

02

Download materials & access officiant training

Pull your favorite selections into the ceremony outline and tailor them to your couple.

03

Officiate with confidence

Polish your delivery with officiant training, then step up and lead a ceremony people remember.

Is this for you?

Built for new & online ordained ministers

Perfect if you’re…

  • An online ordained minister officiating your first few weddings
  • A friend or family member asked to perform a ceremony and want to do it well
  • Serving nonreligious, nondenominational, or mixed-faith couples
  • Looking to turn one or two weddings into a small officiant side business

Probably not if you’re…

  • Couples looking to hire an officiant for their own wedding. Look for sites like First Officiant instead
  • Planning a highly traditional or strictly religious ceremony
  • Mainly looking for legal or marriage license help
  • Set on writing every word from scratch with no template to start from
Matt, professional wedding officiant
Meet Matt

Your couple isn’t typical. Their ceremony shouldn’t be either.

Matt has officiated over one thousand weddings and created this material after his best friend asked him to officiate and nothing online was good enough.

The scripts and training here are built specifically for online ordained ministers and first-time officiants who want a modern ceremony that actually sounds like real people today.

Read Matt’s full story →
From ministers who used it

High-fives, compliments & repeat weddings

★★★★★

“I was thrilled when asked to officiate for two gay friends, but unsure how to and had no idea where to find a ceremony that would fit their personalities. Matt’s wedding ceremony material was perfect and I’d highly recommend.”

— Gavin P.
★★★★★

“Matt’s material is fun and the process is simple. I’ve now officiated two weddings for family! It’s a fun reputation to have at extended family gatherings and always seems to get mentioned.”

— Omid F.
★★★★★

“The process was easy and I got lots of high fives and compliments afterward. Everyone loved it and the experience is a memory I’ll cherish for the rest of my life.”

— Amir F.
Free download

Get the Rehearsal Guide

Enter your email to receive Matt’s rehearsal guide plus additional wedding readings, tips, and tricks learned over years of officiating.

Download Rehearsal Guide

Rehearsal Guide Download

No spam. Unsubscribe anytime.

Questions new officiants ask

Good questions. Straight answers.

Absolutely. The material is written for first-time officiants. It walks you through what to say, in what order, so you don’t have to guess.

No. It’s built around fun, modern, nonreligious and nondenominational ceremonies with wording that sounds like real people today.

The scripts cover the ceremony from start to finish. For legal requirements like marriage licenses, you’ll still need to follow your local laws.

You bet. Use the same core structure each time and swap in different readings, vows, and personal details. Many officiants use it for years.

Both. Most buy it for one wedding for a friend or family member, but it’s also built for taking on paying couples and growing a side business.

Ready to officiate
like a pro?

Get the complete system with audio and video training, customize it to your couple, and step up with total confidence.

Get the Bundle · $129
Shopping Cart