★ The Ordained Minister’s Best Friend · Since 2007

Learn to Officiate Weddings Like a Pro

Someone trusted you with one of the biggest moments of their life. Get the ceremony material, structure, and delivery training to create a meaningful, memorable ceremony for the couple and everyone who gets to share it with them.

Used for over 1,000 ceremonies Over 70 ceremony selections Thousands of possible ceremony combinations Nonreligious & inclusive
Wedding officiant leading a modern ceremony
2007
Officiating since
70+
Selections to choose from
100%
Copy, paste & customize
$99
One-time download
Minister laughing with a happy couple during a ceremony How to get ordained to perform weddings
Wedding officiant and couple during a ceremony
What you get inside

Everything you need to make this moment count

You get the words, the structure, and the delivery guidance to create a ceremony that feels personal to the couple and becomes a memory their families and friends get to share.

Unique & Fun Vibe

Modern, nonreligious scripts with over 70 ceremony selections that feel personal, not generic.

Modern Verbiage

Natural, contemporary language that sounds like real people today, not stiff, old-fashioned phrases.

Fully Customizable

Copy, paste, and tailor every section to each couple’s story for a truly memorable ceremony.

Simple Process

Email the material to your couple, collect their choices, and build a ceremony outline fast.

Non-Faith & Inclusive

Unity ceremony ideas and special moments that make any couple’s wedding feel uniquely theirs.

Start-to-Finish Guide

From the first word to the final pronouncement, you’re never guessing what comes next.

Two ways to get started

Get prepared.
Nail the ceremony.

Start with the scripts, or get the bundle with officiant training and save $19.

Ceremony Materials
Everything you need to build a fun, modern ceremony, instantly downloadable.
$99
One time · Instant download
  • Instructions for officiant & couple
  • Complete ceremony outline & materials
  • Over 70 selections to choose from
  • Thousands of possible ceremony combinations
  • Unique, fun & modern wording
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Materials + Training
Everything in Ceremony Materials, plus audio and video training on timing, pauses, and delivery.
$129$148
One time · 1 year of access
  • Everything in Ceremony Materials
  • Audio and video of all ceremony material
  • Comprehensive professional instruction
  • Cheat sheets for your actual ceremony
  • Save $19 vs buying separately
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Just want the scripts to start? Grab Ceremony Materials →

The process

My friend asked me to officiate their wedding. Now what?

Start with a proven ceremony structure, let the couple help shape what sounds like them, then practice the delivery so you can be present for the moment instead of worrying about what comes next.

01

Log into the customer portal

Get the full collection of scripts, readings, vows, and unity ideas instantly.

02

Download materials & access officiant training

Pull your favorite selections into the ceremony outline and tailor them to your couple.

03

Officiate with confidence

Polish your delivery with officiant training, then step up and lead a ceremony people remember.

Is this for you?

Built for the person they trusted with the ceremony

You might be officiating for the first time or already have a few weddings behind you. What matters is that you want to do more than get through it. You want to create something that feels like them and means something to everyone in the room.

Perfect if you’re…

  • The person a couple trusted to lead their wedding and you want to make the moment count
  • An online ordained minister officiating your first few weddings
  • A friend or family member asked to perform a ceremony and you want to do it well
  • Serving nonreligious, nondenominational, or mixed-faith couples
  • A working officiant who wants stronger material, personalization, or delivery guidance
  • Looking to turn one or two weddings into a small officiant side business

Probably not if you’re…

  • Couples looking to hire an officiant for their own wedding. Look for sites like First Officiant instead
  • Planning a highly traditional or strictly religious ceremony
  • Mainly looking for legal or marriage license help
  • Set on writing every word from scratch with no template to start from
Matt, professional wedding officiant
Meet Matt

Your couple isn’t typical. Their ceremony shouldn’t be either.

Matt has officiated over one thousand weddings and created this material after his best friend asked him to officiate and nothing online was good enough.

The scripts and training here are built for the person trusted to lead the ceremony. They give you a proven starting point, then show you how to shape it around the couple and deliver it naturally so the ceremony becomes one of the memories they and their families carry with them.

Read Matt’s full story →
From ministers who used it

High-fives, compliments & repeat weddings

★★★★★

“Matt’s material is fun and the process is simple. I’ve now officiated two weddings for family! It’s a fun reputation to have at extended family gatherings and always seems to get mentioned.”

— Omid F.
★★★★★

“I was thrilled when asked to officiate for two gay friends, but unsure how to and had no idea where to find a ceremony that would fit their personalities. Matt’s wedding ceremony material was perfect and I’d highly recommend.”

— Gavin P.
★★★★★

“At first I was super excited when asked to officiate for my sister and her fiancé. What an honor! But then reality set in that I had no idea what I was doing. After getting ordained online I found Matt and felt instantly better after opening his stuff, and the wedding went great!”

— Jaime L.
★★★★★

“The process was easy and I got lots of high fives and compliments afterward. Everyone loved it and the experience is a memory I’ll cherish for the rest of my life.”

— Amir F.
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Questions new officiants ask

Good questions. Straight answers.

Yes. That’s exactly who this was built for. You get a proven ceremony structure, more than 70 selections the couple can help choose from, and clear guidance so you know what comes next. Add the training and you’ll also hear and see how to deliver each part naturally.

No. It’s built around fun, modern, nonreligious and nondenominational ceremonies with wording that sounds like real people today.

The scripts cover the ceremony from start to finish. For legal requirements like marriage licenses, you’ll still need to follow your local laws.

You bet. Use the same core structure each time and swap in different readings, vows, and personal details. Many officiants use it for years.

Start with the proven structure and let the couple choose the ceremony pieces that sound like them. Then weave in their story and personal details where they belong. You aren’t starting from a blank page, but the finished ceremony still feels like it was created for that couple.

Preparation and delivery make the difference. The training shows you how the ceremony should actually sound, including pacing, pauses, emphasis, and where to connect with the couple and guests instead of staying buried in the page.

You can. Many people start because a friend or family member asked them to officiate. The same ceremony structure and preparation process can also be used with paying couples if you decide you want to officiate more weddings.

Ready to officiate
like a pro?

Get the complete system with audio and video training, customize it to your couple, and step up with total confidence.

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