It’s Not Just What You Say.
It’s How You Say It.
Nonverbal delivery is what audiences remember most. This training shows you how every part of the ceremony should actually sound, so you deliver with calm, natural confidence.
Get Scripts + Training for $129See Matt officiate, distractions and all
A real elopement at a busy trailhead. Kids were yelling nearby, and it didn’t faze Matt, because he was prepared. That’s what this training builds.
This is the difference: knowing exactly how every moment should land.
Watch sample training videos
A clip from four parts of the ceremony, so you can see exactly what you’re getting.
Welcoming Guests
Setting a warm, confident tone
Opening Commentary
Personal, engaging, never stiff
Unity Candle
Guiding a symbolic moment
Pronouncement
Landing the big moment
What’s in the training
Audio and video walkthroughs covering every section of the ceremony material, so you hear how each welcome, reading, and vow should sound before you ever say a word.
Voice-inflection cheat sheets
Key words are underlined so you know where to inflect, and you can keep your place when you look up at the couple and back down at the page.
“The process was easy and I got lots of high fives and compliments afterward. Everyone loved it and the experience is a memory I’ll cherish for the rest of my life.”
“At first I was super excited when asked to officiate for my sister and her fiancé. What an honor! But then reality set in that I had no idea what I was doing. After getting ordained online I found Matt and felt instantly better after opening his stuff, and the wedding went great!”
Wedding officiant training questions
What does the wedding officiant training include?
The training walks through every part of the ceremony on video, so you see and hear exactly how each welcome, reading, vow, and pronouncement should sound. It also includes the voice inflection cheat sheets and a record yourself approach, so you can practice your delivery and walk in sounding natural and confident.
Is the training video, audio, or both?
Both. Matt performs each section on camera so you can watch the timing, pacing, and expression, and the newest pieces include audio too. You’re never guessing how a line should land, because you can hear it first.
What are the voice inflection cheat sheets?
They’re condensed versions of each script with the key words underlined, so you know where to add emphasis and where to pause. You can keep your place when you look up at the couple and back down at the page, which keeps your delivery smooth on the day.
Can I watch the training on my phone, and how long do I have access?
Yes. The training streams in your customer portal on any device, so you can review it on your phone the morning of the wedding if you want. Your access lasts a full year from purchase, so you can revisit it as often as you need.
Is the training only for beginners, or useful for experienced officiants too?
Both. First time officiants lean on it to build confidence quickly, and experienced officiants use it to sharpen pacing, delivery, and the small touches that make a ceremony memorable. Either way, you’re learning from someone who has performed over a thousand weddings.
Get the training with the scripts
The bundle includes all ceremony material plus the complete officiant training (audio, video, cheat sheets). $129 instead of $148 separately.